It’s not mean to set boundaries and to stick to them. It’s mean if the. To break them. You matter and your boundaries are always important and matter. If they can’t or won’t understand that. That is not your fault, it is there’s. Including any siblings, or anybody else.

Don’t get better help or any app like that. They are all scams and do not keep your identity or what you say safe and secure.

Best thing to do is someone in or around you that does online seasons.

That’s what I do, I have a therapist that is from a place around here I trust and is hipa compliant so they won’t give your info and whatever you say to anyone

There should be organizations around you that can help you with therapy if your low income for instance I heard volunteers of America have sliding scale based on income including zero Income.

I trained my service dog to harass me if I been on my computer for to long. She knows precisely how to make me stop. Honestly don’t knock how she learned it but she gets in my view and stares at me intensely.

For me having a dog does help with those problems of being to hyper fixated on my computer for to long.

Usually it takes a few years or more to become good or anything, iirc it takes a while for the alcohol to ferment and stuff from the grapes and I think the longer the tastier?

my laptop is a 2016 laptop and it’s literally falling apart. I know there’s just one. It’s held up with duct tape and hope. Literally. I duct tape it so pieces don’t fall out. I checked multiple times. I would use a external drive but only one USB is working and that’s for keyboard and mouse as the keyboard on it is broken. Also no battery because it was very fluffy. Why the case is duct tape. It kinda broke it. Lol.

FYI I am a American so I’m incredibly poor. I have other computers but there even older and worse then that one. Great for servers though

My laptop only has one slot plus the cost of a 2 tb storage is insane right now.

After a couple of YEARS trying to find work around for native rimworld problems. I found a couple interesting things that it’s not the developer that was the problem it was the game engine unity that broke certain things and the unity game engine people wouldn’t fix.

I now play it on proton with its own set if weird problems.

But just know that maybe these Indy games that run specific engines can’t tos shit about things because the fucking people who make the engine won’t fix it.

Just my experience from rimworld is all.

Pissed off on windows 11. Couldn’t change things I needed or wanted. Didn’t allow for basic shit. Kept on giving me ads and other fucking annoying things. Broke a lot slow and pathetic. Wanted a fucking proper start menu back again the place I been using it for last 30 fucking years. Updates took forever and ever and often broke everything and have to reinstall. Can’t disable auto update ad settings kept resetting each update.

I just wanted a simple computer that just worked. Turned on and just worked every time. Nothing changes without me changing them. Simple and intuitive.

I tried windows again as a duel boot. It wiped broke my Linux partition because micro crap hates people. Never ever going back unless it’s a dedicated machine for the 2 games I rarely play that work slightly better on Windows.

Rather never play games or use the Internet then switch back to windows.

EDIT : got me so mad my Grammer and spelling went out the window. Lol

Just get a console they said. Console just works they said. Why get a PC when it won’t work in a year they said.

This is why I don’t buy consoles. I can use a controller on my computer which is upgradable and not subject to one individual company dictating what I can and can’t do.