“People are arseholes. They’re just always gonna be that way.”

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  • I fully agree with you that there are situations where some people are just impatient, and corners are cut

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    a lot of neurotypicals often don’t like those people too

    Unfortunately, that is not my experience.

    the question isn’t “do I think this person will without a doubt be our top employee” or “WILL this person succeed” … the question is “Given the information at hand, do I think there is a higher likelihood of the person succeeding or struggling?” […] If I say yes, and they hire the person, and they don’t fit at the company, I can still just point to “they answered all the interview questions properly” and it’s not my fault things went poorly.

    This is an instance of your case 1, which is not really what this thread is about.


  • Your list of cases can be paraphrased thus:

    • Case 1: information known is incomplete, but sufficient.
    • Case 2: information known is complete, and sufficient.
    • Case 3: see case 1.

    Yes, those cases are easy to deal with, even on the spectrum.

    Hard cases are where information is insufficient, and consequences of the decision are serious.

    Neurotypicals (& ADDers) facing genuinely insufficient information often prefer a decision regardless - instead of admitting they cannot yet make a sound one. They prioritise impatience over correctness; short-term over long-term.

    That bias is a factor in much social, environmental, and economic harm.















  • Yes. Here are some common self-hosting scenarios:

    • Home server containing family files: scans, photos, device backups, …
    • Office server containing business files: sensitive documents, device backups, …
    • Web or email server containing websites, Fediverse instances, emails, etc

    In all those cases, full disk encryption (FDE) is a sensible precaution to protect the data in case the server is physically stolen.

    Linux is probably the most common OS kernel for self-hosting. On Linux, LUKS (Linux Unified Key Setup) is probably the best FDE system. It’s mature and reliable. But anyone self-hosting a Linux server with LUKS FDE is faced with the question of where to store the keys.

    Hardware security tokens (HSTs) are widely considered a safer place for keys than SSDs, HDDs, or USB storage. They follow the smartcard principle: a private key can be written to an HST but not read from it (security vulnerabilities excepted). Instead, they implement cryptographic algorithms to prove possession of the private key. So, anyone self-hosting a Linux server with LUKS FDE should strongly consider storing their private key(s) on an HST.

    However, there is more than one way to do that. Hence the question in my OP.






  • I’m sympathetic to many parts of the despair you shared. As for naming it as a whole:

    Gnosticism? (Belief in a malevolent deity…)

    Nihilism?

    Fatalism?

    Misanthropy?

    As you said, though, “there is room for human connection even in a gulag”. Positives can be found in life. Look for the good bits. Play to your strengths. Help others when possible. Maybe look for charities or state agencies that can help you with the job-hunt? Stay healthy.