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  • cRazi_man@europe.pubtoAutism@lemmy.worldAh nuts
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    13 days ago

    There is hardly ever any reason to have read receipts (WhatsApp blue ticks) enabled. They almost always only cause problems. Even for the messages you send, if they haven’t replied, does it really matter if you can see blue ticks or not? Try turning of read receipts for a week and see how much better your life gets. It will significantly reduce drama in your life and cost you nothing.

    The only person I care to see read receipts from is my wife, and that’s easy to implement since she’s one of about 4 people in my life who uses Signal (where I keep read receipts on). All the WhatsApp wankers can wait for a reply at my convenience.





  • Theres more music out there than ever and it is so hard to find.

    Hip hop, rap and RnB are very popular and very much in the mainstream, but I’m not a fan. So popular music certainly isn’t to my taste.

    Rock is well past its peak popularity. There’s load of good rock and metal, but it takes work to find it now.

    People’s tastes might not reflect what’s currently popular, which makes it falsely look like “all music is shit now”.


  • I’ve kept both. Synology photos does auto upload from my+wife’s phones. Then Immich scans this as an external database to import.

    Synology keeps the photos in a normal name and folder structure. So the files can be accessed and organised in a normal file browser. Moving to a different device or app is as simple as copying the files over. These folders are backed up off site so even if my hardware dies, I don’t have to set up Immich again before I can access the images as they’re normal image files.

    Immich auto upload puts the photos into its own database that is not human readable. I didn’t want that. But I do want the AI tagging, search and fast browsing Immich has. If I didn’t already have Synology photos set up, then I might have tried using Syncthing to send photos to my NAS and then access through Immich.











  • I’ve been through this whole process and wanted to make the best choice and explore all options myself. In the end my conclusion ended up being what most people online recommended after all: keep NAS and compute separate and that Debian is best for a Linux server. Now I have a Synology NAS and a 12th gen Intel mini PC. I run most of what you mention above and it works great.

    I spent ages looking at so many sources to learn and get this set up. After I got it all done, I found this is one simple guide that basically covered the whole process and I really with O found this early: https://thecybersecguru.com/tutorials/self-hosting-guide/